Here’s the reason i need feminism. I went to a party not long ago with some good friends, and i met a guy who couldn’t understand i didn’t want him - he kept coming at me, saying things like: “you want it, you just don’t know it ‘till i give it to you” and “fucking whore, you’ve slept with half the men in here, it’s only fair i get some too”.
I felt imensely uncomfortable, and i tried getting away from him - i was really scared, to be honest.
I ended up with going into the kitchen to Call my parents and tell them to come and get me, when he came from behind and grabbed me hard on my breasts, telling me i DESERVED what i got. He twisted my breasts so hard i have huge bruises, both underneath and on top of my breasts; including some hard bitemarks on my arms, neck and shoulders.
A friend came and saw it, and helped me get out, but i’m still scared and uncomfortable.
I’m sick of THIS. Of men (granted, only a few) thinking they hear yes when i say no.
I need to make it clear that this happens. I could have gotten raped, if not for my friend helping me out.
And it’s scary.
The last picture is my right breast three days later - lumpst are forming and my doctor told me i was lucky not to have permanent damage.
The guy who did this to me told his friend (who, luckily is my friend too, so i can get info about the progress of things): "He felt awesome to have another woman submitted to him. In the end, they all discovered they wanted him - and he wanted a feel of me, and didn’t care he had hurt me - it wasn’t his problem, right?"
My biggest problem besides the pain is that i’m starting to feel twisted myself. I’m actually afraid to leave my house, and i’m ashamed because if i hadn’t been wearing that shirt with a low neckline, this would not have happened. And i’m scared that it will happen again.
I’m scared, ashamed, angry and so afraid. Because of a single man.
And if that’s not wrong, then I don’t know what is.
Personally, I think you should get a bunch of friends together & beat the piss out of that sorry excuse for a human being. Oh, and i would also post a pic of him for public shaming.